Friday, December 23, 2022

The ticking watch.....

With all the busyness and all the distractions around us, how can we be still? How can we learn to just take time out and sit still? It is not easy to do, is it? We are pulled in hundred different directions. It seems like everybody wants something from us. Spouses, children, elderly parents, pets, friends, the boss, and not to mention time spent on the smart phone. Answering calls, texting, emailing and of course watching the latest news, which can be very stressful on its own. So what are we to do? In the early seventies, when I was still in college, they were talking about new inventions and how we were going to have so much free time. Really? Where is the free time? The more gadgets we have, the more time we seem to waste. Before we had "beepers" (some young people may not know what that is), cell phones, computers and voicemail, it was nice. We would leave the office for lunch and come back to a bunch of messages we had to return. When we got all the above mentioned "gadgets" we were on call all the time. People started taking their laptops on their vacation. We all want to check our emails and texts, so we don't "miss" anything. It seems like with all the progress we have made, we have also lost the little freedoms we had.We lost the free time we had. I just saw a short video on the "future" groceries stores...WOW...there is a robot like cart that follows you around and does all the work for you and it adds up everything so you don't need to go to a cashier or a self checkout register. Crazy. We have less time today, than we ever had, and unfortunately, we have more noise..Every place you go there is music, some is good, but some gives you a headache. There is music even in the bathrooms. In the restaurants, the markets, the dressing rooms. No peace and quiet. 

I read this little story not too long ago, where a group of workers were cutting ice out of a frozen lake and storing it in an icehouse, when one of the workers realized he had lost his watch in the windowless building. They all searched for it in vain. 

After they had given up, a young boy who had seen them exit, went into the building. Soon, he came out with the watch. They couldn't believe it. They asked him how he was able to find it? The young man said, I sat down and kept quiet, and soon I could hear it ticking!

No wonder we cannot hear God, or hear the watch ticking. Constant turmoil is all around us. Today we downloaded an App, because the product we were buying had a coupon we could use from the App. You would think it would be simple..oh NO. We had to create an account, which we did, then we had to come up with user ID and passcode, which we did. But at the end we couldn't get the coupon. There was something the App did not like. We wasted time, got frustrated and we said, forget it, paid the full price and left the store. The Bible often talks about being still and also not to fret. Not easy to do in today's world! 

Psalm 46:10 Be still and know that I am God..Maybe if we stop rushing around and spend some quiet time with Him and the Scriptures, we may hear his gentle voice. Instead of looking at our smart phones every two seconds, maybe we can sit down and read a good book. 

Psalm 37: 7 suggests to "be still before the Lord and wait patiently for Him". Again, hard to do, when you see the injustices around us and the people who get away with doing bad things. How can we be calm and quiet? Well, I don't know. All we can do is try. We must ask ourselves. What will help us stay silent and listen? How can we be still before God each day? If we asked ourselves these questions, perhaps we can start hearing His wisdom speaking to us, quiet and steady as a ticking watch.

Have a Great Day


 


  

Wednesday, December 7, 2022

Priceless Christmas gifts to share

 For your enemies....................... Forgiveness

For your customers.....................Your best service

For your opponent......................Tolerance

For a friend.................................Your heart

For a child....................................A good example

For your father..............................Reverence

For your mother............................Conduct that will make her proud of you

For yourself..................................Respect

For all people................................Charity


Matthew 5:16

Let your light so shine before men that they may see your good works and glorify

your Father who is in Heaven.


Let's face it, we all stress out as to what to get people on our gift list. Whether it is for a birthday, graduation, wedding or Christmas. What we hope for is that the gift we pick will bring joy to their life. So, as the Christmas season is upon us, we need to keep our perspective, not to spend more than we need to or can afford. We need to not equate love with money spent. What is important is to be thoughtful and buy wisely. Let the person know that you care about them. I think that is more than the gift itself. Our world has gotten so materialistic that even the children demand certain things, regardless of what the cost is (which they don't know or understand) and the parents give in to their demands. I know of friends whose kids have opened gifts and gotten really angry that they did not get what they wanted. They threw down the gifts and stormed out the room, crying. Ashame. What ever happened to being thankful for what we get, and appreciate the effort and time that went into the process. The holidays are not for people to go into debt, and spend money they may not have, just to satisfy others and give in to the pressures of this world. So, just try to enjoy the season with simple things and surround yourself with the people you love!

Have a blessed Holiday Season

Merry Christmas